IMHO for a good starter kit:
DVD (must buy): http://www.straightrazordesigns.com/...ing-dvd-p-1245
shipping may show up as expensive on their website..shoot them an email and I'm sure they can bring the price down
Razor and Strop Kit + Extra strop: http://whippeddog.com/straightrazors...ht-unseen-deal
If you do want this one - shoot Larry an email that you want it and he'll tell you where to paypal the money
Brush and Soap from local pharmacy.
Second razor from classifieds at: straightrazorplace.com (make sure the seller is selling it shave ready and is trusted)
This is the cheapest safest possible option I can think of.
More expensive (easy solution):
Buy a shaving kit from: http://www.straightrazordesigns.com/...t-shaving-sets
All shave ready - all of them come with everything you need.