Obviously this is opinion, everyone has, and is entitled to, a different one. White 3 is getting down to low enough carbon amounts that edge retention is objectively pretty poor. White 2 is a fair degree better. Both have the exact same weaknesses - reactivity, sub-optimal edge retention - but White 2 holds edges better than White 3. The difference in toughness between the two isn't really applicable in the kitchen knife space unless you are specifically talking about a knife subjected to pretty horrible treatment.
Again, this is all my opinion, based on using various knives over time.
I wonder how much better white 2 retention is and if it is detectable in use. White 3 has enough carbon to get pretty hard. There could be a situation where toughness matters more than marginal increase in wear resistance. For example with tougher steel you could conceivably have more acute geometry where white 2 would chip, but white 3 wouldn't and so in such a case white 3 edge would last longer. I don't know if anyone actually optimizes geometry to steel or if white 3 is taken to the same hardness as white 2, so just a thought experiment.
I remember someone here raving about white 3 knives from some famous maker, I forget who. Also recently it's been said that mizuno white steel honyaki are white 3 and have been for years.
In any case I am not disputing your experiences and I haven't used a white 3 knife. I think white 2 has poor retention too. I wouldn't base my decision on the difference between these two when buying from a good maker who knows how to work them.