cook spaghetti in salted water with a bay leaf in there
render guanciale
stir in brunoise shallots & onion, shaved garlic, julienne jarred calabrian peppers, handful fresh grape tomatoes cut in half
let it caramelize (dont stir until it starts to turn almost black around the edges, stir gently then let it sit again and get more color a second time), deglaze with white wine
mix in cooked spaghetti straight from the water and fresh chopped parsley
remove from heat
stir in egg yolk
finish with microplaned pecorino or parmesan (she can have a little, worth it) and fresh ground pepper
pappardelle with shredded braised short rib and red wine mushroom sauce and chili flakes
rigatoni with italian sausage, red onion , zucchini, bell pepper, baby bella mushrooms, fresh oregano, add some chicken stock and white wine let it reduce completely to the point where the pasta will sear, finish with butter and squeeze of lemon