I'm not generalizing to all people, I'm just saying, for my purposes, I like having a knife with a hard Japanese steel, for edge retention purposes, as opposed to, say, a Wuesthoff or Zwilling. I use soft wood cutting boards specifically to save the edge (pine, red cedar, redwood). My Tojiro DPs and the Randy Haas have performed amazingly well over 10 years of light use.
Yes, according to my notes at the time, the Tojiro DPs are 60-61, the Randy Haas, also 60-61. Never had to use a rod, but I did re-sharpen them all at least once, maybe twice.
That's astonishing to me that you call 62-65 'medium hard'. You mean to say there are knives out there that are harder than 65? YIKES!