OP, just a word of encouragement here...you don't need expensive tools, steels, or stones to sharpen.
A bastard file and a chinese garden shears (~50 hrc) will cut paper after 5 minutes of work
What you do need to do is get a grasp on the correct geometry, and the process of testing your work as you go.
DO ALL THIS ON A 1K STONE. I wouldn't even think of using any stone below 700-800 grit (shapton 1K, chosera 800, are as course as you need). I would not even CONSIDER thinking about using a stone over 1000 grit (like a 3K or 5K) if you're knives cannot easily cut computer paper.
It might not cut it absolutely perfect, but it should easily be shredding computer paper off of 1K.
Finer stones are for very light pressure, polishing, and burr removeal. Light pressure doesn't provide tons of feedback, so if you are not holding the edge correctly, you will be harder to get the "feedback" from the stone/process to hold better/steady edge geometry on a stone over 1-2K.
Lastly, sharpening by hand is a motor control problem for your hands/arms and it takes time + repetitions (ie practice)... I'm sure for everybody itds pretty normal need to practice when starting out or refreshing skills after long abscence.
The 1K gives good feedback and cuts fast enough that fatigue won't cause problems. Using a fine stone too early or with inexperienced technique takes too many strokes and over time the changes of a poor angle on any given stroke will increase due to either fatique or simple stochasic error process (random mistakes).