I apologize, I should not have gone off like I did and I regret belittling your experiences.I'm not the person you're imagining, and I would never use the term "plowing." For a better sex life I'd recommend going to therapy over any type of physical improvement - you don't even need a partner. I'm sure you're right that raising children is more terrifying and rewarding than anything else on earth, though I'll never know. But I thought we were talking about cars
For what its worth, I don't think you are some strange karma sutra cult weirdo. I imagine you are someone that is just very close and connected to your partner.
BTW- there is a lot to be said for a quick plow though