K813zra
Senior Member
Maybe this point was made earlier, but we haven't exactly reached equality between the sexes in division of household responsibilities. It's still the case that women are usually the ones who cook for the family on a daily basis, who pack the kid's lunches before school, and are responsible for getting food on the table for dinner. It's a job, not a hobby. It's not something to think about when you have free time for doing something else.
Men are more likely to approach cooking as a hobby, with all the geeky tool acquisition associated with hobbies, simply because they have that freedom of choice for when to cook, or not cook.
I know this is a sweeping generalization, and there are other factors like the "knives are cool weapons" thing that boys are exposed to, in the culture. But I think freedom to approach cooking as a hobby, and not a job as a result of traditional gender roles, is definitely part of it.
Being a "house husband" I am the one who takes on those roles and still find cooking can be a hobby even if it is an obligation. No reason for it to be mundane if you can enjoy it. I learned that from my mother, who while "obliged" to do so, loves to cook and bake. I also think this sort of thing is becoming more common but as you said, may not be the norm. But in this day and age no one partner should feel obliged to cook etc. It takes two...