As someone who both sells knives and makes handles here is my take.
I think Tosho is a very reputable company. You pay a little extra for their knives, which is common when you have a store front. However, there is no better way to pick out a knife than going in a shop and seeing it first hand. If the knife has been used, then they provided a reasonable offer.
Blonde v Black
Blonde comes from cow, black comes from water buffalo. Cow horn moves more than buffalo horn
Horn and metal :
Like anyone making handles, it’s a learning process and we make mistakes. Horn next to metal is difficult to get right and it’s taken me a while to try to nail it down. Since a lot of handle makers have asked me for advice on this here are my suggestions.
Curing horn
Horn is less predictable than wood, it moves differently and it’s harder to know when it’s fully cured.
The best way to cure horn is with time. I try to buy horn for 2 years out, but it is difficult to do. If you use the hidden dowel method, cut your ferrules a little long and drill them. Drilling out the unused part early, gives the horn more surface area to breathe, so it will cure faster. Also, less to cure. Oil the ends to help splitting.
When it’s time to use the horn, sand it down, which is why I cut them a little long. This will help with the micro splitting on the ends.
Patience
This is the part that make a huge difference. After the handle is shaped, it should be smooth as silk. Set it aside for at least a week and then run your fingernail over it. If there is movement, sand again and let it sit another week or so. Repeat until you are confident that it’s good. It may take a long time…
If someone wants a horn handle in a hurry, this is going to drive them nuts. I sent a handful out too early and wish I hadn’t. I think it’s better to have someone irritated at me early on, then later after the handle causes the issues.
Long term, I don’t think there is a way to have organic materials next to metal without movement. If you buy a handle with metal spacers, then you will feel it at some point. How much depends on many factors.