I'm definitely a neutral-to-handle kinda guy. If the centre of mass is anywhere within the grip, I'm a happy camper.
I can try to explain why. Grab a neutral balanced knife, hold it in the pinch grip with three fingers, but with the tip of the knife facing up to the sky and your arm parallel to the ground. Now shake it side to side like it owes you money....
With the balance point within the pinch, the knife will go as fast as you want with no real loss of control.
If you do the same thing with a knife that has a balance point towards the tip, things get a little wild if you try to go faster than the knife allows. The max speed is dictated by the knife's rhythm, rather than your own, and this feeling is very noticeable over the board during push-cutting.
With balance toward the handle, so long as it's still within the grip of my hand it doesn't bother me much. I can simply tighten the grip with my pinky and ring fingers. I enjoy using handle-heavy petty/paring knives, as they're often used with a different grip that makes more use of the palm.